Arlen Lopiccalo: This is not your fault as you are the one stable thing in your kids lifes. There is no law that will order you to pay 50 % of the transportation costs just because she cant stay put. Just tell her that you agreed if within reasonable travel distance but this is too far and you cant afford it. If she wants to keep moving then its her problem to figure how to see the kids. Just FYI, there arent too many jobs open down here in Florida so shes going to be moving soon again. Dont worry so much about her as your kids and tell them until mom gets a stable residence they may not be seeing too much of her, not your fault at all. Good luck...Show more
Terresa Tsasie: I believe you are right to not want to travel farther,But I do believe it is a very good thing to have both of your parents in your life,First hand experience here,when I was growing up I wanted nothing more than to see my dad,But he was always to busy and lived far away.I saw him maybe once a ye! ar from 6-17 years of age I am 22 now It have been 3 years since I have seen him.Trust me your children need both parents in their life and as a responsible parent It is up to you to do what is necessary to provide the opportunity for that...Show more
Hope Lundmark: OC...unless you have not been in the country...actually on a different planet then you should know its not so easy to find a job right now. Yes I have been looking. I even went back to school to increase my marketability. So don't respond to things that are not related to the question.
Sammy Kar: She moved so she should have to shoulder most if not all of the transportation costs. Plus she didn't give you proper notice as your papers say. Some exes never grow up and yours sounds a lot like mine. I understand your position and I think you sound fair but really the only way to truly resolve this issue is to go to court but really try to leave your kids out of it. And her being evicted is not your probl! em she needs to grow up and follow procedure that's why divorc! e decrees are written. If she didn't follow the rules I say get something in writing from the courts that say because she moved without proper notice that she should bear the costs of transportation....Show more
Jarrod Darnall: That is a tough spot to be in. From what I know with my oldest daughter. It is supposed to be 50/50 unless the non-custodial parent moves more than a certain amount of miles away. Given the fact that you moved as well, I do believe it goes back to 50/50. The way my ex and I work it out now is he pays for one way for her to fly and I pay the way back. I do believe if you are more than 1500 miles away from each other you will have to go to a different schedule. Like she would get them for the summer and Christmas and you would have them the rest of the year. It does vary from state to state. Hope that helps :)...Show more
Rosella Figliola: I think it will depend on your state laws. I know in some states that if you refuse to bring the child! for visitation that he has the right to refuse to pay the child support as you deny him the right to see his daughter. But, he is not really helping you anyway.
Rickey Vrieze: You need to keep looking for a job.
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